My favourite level to teach is babies and Infants. So of course having another baby 7 weeks ago has encouraged me to start another blog which I will continue to add to as she grows.
Indy Mae was born at home on the 14th of January. It was the most amazing experience. Everything went to plan and I was immediately in love with her.
A lot of first time mothers rush to give their babies a bath in the first few days. Babies are born with vernix over them. It is a waxy white substance that protects the baby while they are in the amniotic fluid for 9 months.
There is no need to rush into giving your baby a bath straight away.
My daughter had her first bath at nearly 1 week old.
I held her head and got a clean cloth and wiped her face first and around her ears then moving onto her head. In the winter you want to make sure that you have a nice warm room so they don’t get cold.
Dry their head and face and then hold your babies arm on one side with your arm running behind their back, so you can then support their head.
Ensure that the water is not too hot and not too cold when you put your baby into the bath.
Holding then slowly swish your baby up and down the bath. You can sing songs to your baby like;
“swish swash, swish swash I’m a little cookoo clock, swish swash, swish swash now we are striking 1 oclock,”
Remember your baby has been in amniotic fluid for 9 months.
Ensure that your new born has had lots of sleep and hasn’t been awake for a long period of time. They will need to have a full belly!
I am not a big fan of anything going in the water for a newborn as they will have enough chemicals in their lives growing up. I just use water and a few sprays of rose water. Lavender oil is also nice when they are a bit older and not newborn anymore.
Start with just a flannel squeezing it out over their head.
“Indy ready 1,2,3 (trickle water over their head)”
After 4 weeks I can’t say that Indy loves the water. She has actually cried every time! I don’t remember my other 2 crying when they had a bath but that doesn’t mean that she gets out of the bath any earlier. A couple of weeks down the track and she is loving it. Either that or she has realised that it is just going to happen.
New born babies don’t need a long bath just a quick clean and then learning the cue to go under the water which only needs to be done a a couple of times every time they have a bath.
Once you have done the flannel for the first few baths you can move onto using a small cup a quarter full with water and once again use the cue
“Indy, Ready, 1,2,3 (pour the cup of water over her head)”
With our first two children we only gave them baths. But with Indy sometimes it is easier to go in the shower. Great bonding time for dad and your new baby. Once again you can cue “Indy, ready, 1,2, 3 and then put them under the shower and then pull them out straight away.” Maybe this is something that Indy prefers as she doesn’t seem to cry as much with Dad in the shower!
I think it is good to have both baths and showers as it means the water is going over her head.
If you are anxious then your baby will read that from you. Don’t hold back from putting the water on their head at this young stage as they will develop a fear of the water going on their head. At the moment it is just natural to have water around them and over their heads because of them swimming in the amniotic fluid for 9 months!